Personal CRM
What Is a Personal CRM?
A personal CRM is a private system for remembering people, conversations, and follow-ups. Learn how it differs from a sales CRM and who benefits most.
A personal CRM should help you remember context and follow up thoughtfully, without forcing every relationship into a sales pipeline.
Why people pick Intriq
Type a line or record a voice note after you talk to someone. Intriq files the details on the right person for you to confirm.
Ask for a brief before a call and see what they are working on, what was said last time, and the follow-ups you promised.
Everything comes from notes you chose to save. Intriq never scrapes public profiles.
At a glance
| App | Starting paid price | Free plan | Platforms | How you capture | Where the data comes from |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| | Starting paid price $12.99/mo, or $8.33/mo billed yearly | Free plan Yes | Platforms iPhone, web | How you capture Type or speak a note; AI files it under the right person | Where the data comes from Only what you tell it |
| | Starting paid price $20/mo, or $12/mo billed yearly | Free plan No (7-day trial) | Platforms iOS, Android, web, Mac, Windows, Chrome extension | How you capture LinkedIn, email, calendar and WhatsApp sync; contact import | Where the data comes from Your synced accounts |
| | Starting paid price $10/mo, or half that billed yearly | Free plan Yes (up to 1,000 contacts) | Platforms iOS, Mac, Windows, web | How you capture Import from email, calendar, LinkedIn, X, Facebook and iMessage | Where the data comes from Your synced accounts, plus updates such as job changes and news mentions |
| | Starting paid price $30 per member/mo, or $24 billed yearly | Free plan No (14-day trial) | Platforms Web, mobile app, Chrome extension | How you capture LinkedIn extension; email, calendar and WhatsApp sync; CSV import | Where the data comes from Your synced accounts, plus contact and company enrichment |
| | Starting paid price $9/mo, or $90/yr hosted | Free plan Free if you self-host | Platforms Web (works in a phone browser) | How you capture Manual entry; vCard and CSV import | Where the data comes from Only what you enter |
Prices in US dollars from each company's own pricing page on September 25, 2026. See every comparison.
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In depth
A personal CRM is a private system for keeping track of the people in your life, from friends and family to founders, investors, clients, candidates, and partners, without the structure of a sales pipeline. It stores who you know, when you last connected, what was discussed, and what you owe each other. The category exists because the work of staying close to people does not fit inside an address book or a sales tool.
Sales CRMs (HubSpot, Salesforce, Pipedrive, Attio) are built around deals, stages, forecasts, and team visibility. Personal CRMs (Dex, Clay/Mesh, Monica, Folk, Intriq) are built around individual relationships, reminders, and notes. The defining test: if you would feel uncomfortable closing the record after a single transaction, it belongs in a personal CRM rather than a sales CRM.
The category has consolidated around five recurring names. Dex is the most established for LinkedIn-heavy networkers. Clay (now Mesh) leans on automatic contact enrichment. Monica is the open-source, self-hostable option for friends and family. Folk targets agency-style relationship work. Intriq is the iPhone-first private relationship memory app that focuses on capture-to-recall rather than network management.
Intriq is a personal CRM alternative for people whose real problem is memory, not pipeline. If your friction is forgetting what someone told you, not maintaining a contact graph, Intriq is shaped for that specific job. It is iPhone-first, private by default, and designed around grounded briefings before the next conversation rather than dashboards after the fact.
Common questions
The honest answer is that it depends on the job. Dex is strongest for LinkedIn-heavy networkers. Monica is strongest for open-source and self-hosting. Folk is strongest for agency-style relationship work. Intriq is strongest for private, iPhone-first relationship memory. Pick the one whose workflow matches the friction you actually feel.
Intriq overlaps with the personal CRM category but is positioned as a relationship memory app: a private alternative, on iPhone and the web, to pipeline-style personal CRMs. There are no deal stages, no team workspace, and no LinkedIn auto-sync.
Only if you want more than reachability. Apple Contacts stores phone numbers, emails, and addresses. A personal CRM stores the context that makes those contacts matter: what was said, what you promised, and what to do next.
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